Category: Relationships

Love sucks and I’m never dating again

We meet, we date, and we fall in love to live happily ever after. Why can’t it always be this easy? What happens when you are dating someone and it goes up in flames? (For this post, anything less than marriage is a failed relationship). I find it sad when someone gives up on love

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When a legend calls, you answer

It was pure chance that I met Rahman (better known as Folabi). We both had applied for an accounting internship at a small company and were excited when we were awarded the positions. We were complete strangers; two young men looking for resume builders and more importantly at the time, extra cash! I remember our

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Get A Man – The LongLiveTobe way

*Disclaimer: These are views from a single man. Don’t come crying to me because my methods didn’t guarantee the man of your dreams. Go and pray sis.   I grew up with 3 beautiful sisters and a lovely mother in a single parent household. I had an older brother, but he was out of the

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Tobe’s law of friendship.

If I call you a friend, we must distinguish competing from inspiring. As we get older, different plateaus are being scaled, new heights reached and additional wealth is being amassed. I personally have seen relationships deteriorate due to jealousy and envy in situations where love should conquer all those feelings. As a friend in competition,

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My not so little sister Krystal

It’s Wednesday right? That’s how the WCW posts usually start lol. I don’t know what prompted this thought; but I have been very reticent when it comes to the women in my life. I don’t call or express my love enough. One day at a time, I will change that! I recently took a road

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Shoot Ya Shot 2017 Campaign

So, I’m going through a phase with women right now (chill out cuhh, I’m straight). Either I meet a decent woman with boring conversation or the other way around. I also find myself attracting younger women who like to dive head first into the land of the DM’s with no helmet or regard for collision

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