I have always dreamt of giving the things I never had. I never had a man give me a “sex talk” as an adolescent, I never had a man tell me “it will be alright” after I messed up, and most of all, I never had a man tell me “I am proud of you”
Category: Relationships
Regardless of your relationship status, love should be celebrated everyday. Today is just one day that the world chooses to recognize love. The world can be a strange place, a place where standards change by the TikTok and love is measured by how many thumbs approve (likes/comments). Hopefully you don’t misinterpret my thoughts; I don’t
I ran into a childhood friend the other day. It was good seeing Davon; we used to play football and hang out around the neighborhood about 15 years ago. We gave each other a complimentary “yooooo what’s good,” followed by a perfunctory dap. My man Davon…. We actually weren’t fond of each other growing up;
I seriously encourage everyone to take some time and reflect on the year thus far. Really sit back and reflect on where you are right now compared to Dec. 31st when you were setting your goals. For me, I am in an uncertain, but great spot halfway through the year. My big goal for 2019
Some men never die, Some men never live, But we are alive tonight That was a quote we read at a bar in Bali. We might have been on our 4th round of shots when we saw the quote, so it merely served as a drinking anthem, but it meant a little more to me
There are a handful of directions I could have taken with this post. I was blessed to take a vacation with my beautiful family, something we have not done in decades. The picture you see covers three generations from my mom, me and my siblings, and the younger nephews and nieces. As I prepared to
I am a finance guy; my love for the subject has grown steadily ever since my older brother talked me out of studying mechanical engineering for undergraduate studies (I’m Nigerian aka STEM or die). Thankfully, God blessed me with a job right out of school in my field and I have climbed that corporate ladder
Time for change: A woman’s reaction to anything a man says is her choice. Here we are with another overdue post about issues I feel need to be addressed with my fellas. As black men we are continually taught to control our emotions when dealing with cops, employers, teachers and more. Why aren’t we taught
p.s I wasnt listening to Drake’s “Scorpion Side B” when I wrote this. Strictly written for the youth dem. Bless up! This is for my younger 21-25 crowd. Fellas, pull up a seat, I think I qualify as an OG now lol. A few years ago I was in your shoes, with the perceived world
Long Live Tobe 